Friday, August 14, 2009

The Universe is the Mirror of Our Limited Thinking


“Whatever is happening out there is only the mirror of my own limited thinking. I trust the intelligence within me.”


Last week I was so lucky to have a chat with co-worker whose roles are mom and career woman at the same time. She has been working quite hard lately. And every night she came home when her son has slept. And it has been happening for some days or so.

One night, ther son woke up and found her coming back home quite late. Rather than giving sweet smile or warm hug, he cried whilst she hold him tight. He has missed her a lot and in the need of love that strong, he said, “I miss you, mom.”

Many women would have cried when facing that condition. And the reaction of that situation, one step further, may be being negative because of the workload they have. Whatever the reasons; bosses suck, everything is unclear, co-workers are not as friendly they used to be. And we blamed everything. We blamed our company, our job because it ruins family lie. We blamed the company who generously paid us every month. And it actually affects our own mood.

If we get out from our shoes and think again for awhile, is that fair for the company we work for, who pays us every month? It’s our choice to work there anyway. And it’s our choice to not working there as well.

From the short conversation with my co-workers, I felt blessed that day. Rather than being negative, she said that being positive means that we need to be proactive rather than reactive. Why I finish my work late? How can I come home at 5 PM everyday, so I can see my son and being an angel or storyteller before he falls asleep? Being positive means that we will face problems rather than quit from it.

I used to be super-negative person and sometimes I am still one. From the tiring days of being negative, I can identify some reactions in facing problems that affect our destinies:




  1. We quit. For my co-worker case, quitting can be going home without really solving problems in the office. So, she will have time with family, but problems in office stay there. And that is the time she’s being unfair to company that pays her. And the other option is the other way around that may leads to her son’s cry more often. She becomes alien for her own son.


  2. We stay, but do nothing. Sometimes ‘go easy’ becomes our strong reason to think that we have no promblem. And we do nothing. We think we’re positive person, but we’re negative person with mask. And at the end of the day, we go nowhere.


  3. We stay, and solve. Needless to say, this is the hardest part but worth it. It’s a journey rather than instant change. In my co-worker case, she pushes herself hard to finish work at 5 PM, remove unimportant things at work and being mindful to work on biggest priorities.



I feel so lucky to have understood how a great mom can still become positive in super-busy life. She’s the example of trusting the intelligence within her and she has expanded her limited thinking to invite universe to work for what she wants.




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